{"id":1877,"date":"2026-09-12T00:18:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-12T00:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yumguide.delicedcook.com\/?p=1877"},"modified":"2026-09-12T00:18:00","modified_gmt":"2026-09-12T00:18:00","slug":"my-best-friend-of-37-years-asked-me-to-take-one-last-photo-together-on-vacation-as-friends-when-i-asked-why-last-she-smiled-and-said-because-tomorrow-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yumguide.delicedcook.com\/?p=1877","title":{"rendered":"\u201cMy Best Friend of 37 Years Asked Me to Take One LAST Photo Together on Vacation\u2014As Friends. When I Asked Why \u2018Last,\u2019 She Smiled and Said, \u2018Because Tomorrow You\u2019ll Find Out Who I Really Am\u2026\u2019\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-after-image\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1783805644112-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CJa_gL3h55YDFVjqVgMdd0wP-g\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/23331504997\/Annonces-III_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<h2>\ud83d\udc94\ud83d\udc94 \u201cMy Best Friend of 37 Years Asked Me to Take One LAST Photo Together on Vacation\u2014As Friends. When I Asked Why \u2018Last,\u2019 She Smiled and Said, \u2018Because Tomorrow You\u2019ll Find Out Who I Really Am\u2026\u2019\u201d<\/h2>\n<div class=\"google-auto-placed ap_container\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle adsbygoogle-noablate\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfilled\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_7_host\"><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>When the truth comes out years later, you begin to question not only the people around you, but your own memories too. Because you realize that while you were loving and trusting someone sincerely, they were smiling beside you while hiding a secret that could have destroyed your entire life.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Explore Art Software\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Explore Art Software<\/div>\n<p>Susan and I had been \u00a0<span class=\"google-anno-t\">friends<\/span> since we were seven years old.<\/p>\n<div class=\"b-r b-r--after_p_1\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-ad-slot=\"5296400182\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfilled\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_3_host\"><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>We grew up in the same small town, rode the same school bus, sat at the same desk, and did almost everything together. When I fell in love for the first time, Susan was the first person I told. When her parents divorced, she spent weeks sleeping at our house.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-auto-placed ap_container\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle adsbygoogle-noablate\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfilled\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_8_host\"><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>Our mothers used to joke that we were more like sisters than friends.<\/p>\n<div class=\"b-r b-r--after_p_2\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-ad-slot=\"5296400182\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfill-optimized\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_4_host\">\n<div class=\"google-aiuf\" data-google-ad-efd=\"true\">\n<div class=\"goog-rentries\">\n<div><span tabindex=\"0\" role=\"heading\" aria-label=\"These are topics related to the article that might interest you\" aria-level=\"2\">Discover more<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"photo\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"photo\">photo<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Married\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Married\">Married<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"marriage\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"marriage\">marriage<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>The years passed.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Book Vacation Rentals\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Book Vacation Rentals<\/div>\n<div class=\"google-auto-placed ap_container\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle adsbygoogle-noablate\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfilled\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_9_host\"><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>I \u00a0<span class=\"google-anno-t\">married<\/span> Michael, and a few years later Susan got married too, then eventually divorced. When herfell apart, she was there for me again. Or rather, we were always there for each other.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2002 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/a.positive-website.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ChatGPT-Image-16-\u0430\u0432\u0433.-2026-\u0433.-15_21_20-3.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/a.positive-website.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ChatGPT-Image-16-\u0430\u0432\u0433.-2026-\u0433.-15_21_20-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/a.positive-website.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ChatGPT-Image-16-\u0430\u0432\u0433.-2026-\u0433.-15_21_20-3-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/a.positive-website.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ChatGPT-Image-16-\u0430\u0432\u0433.-2026-\u0433.-15_21_20-3-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/a.positive-website.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/ChatGPT-Image-16-\u0430\u0432\u0433.-2026-\u0433.-15_21_20-3-711x400.jpg 711w\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Michael treated her like a member of the family too.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-auto-placed ap_container\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle adsbygoogle-noablate\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfilled\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_10_host\"><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>Susan came to our house without calling first. She knew where we kept the glasses, what kind of coffee Michael liked, and she even had a spare key to our house.<\/p>\n<p>I never thought there was anything strange about it.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Join Social Clubs\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Join Social Clubs<\/div>\n<p>She was Susan.<\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-middle-content\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1788392671745-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CLKPgb3h55YDFet1TwQd3fsgxg\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/23331504997\/ads6_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>My best friend.<\/p>\n<p>So when she suggested that we spend a week by the ocean together that summer, I immediately agreed. Michael had died almost a year earlier, and since his death, I had barely left the house.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-auto-placed ap_container\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle adsbygoogle-noablate\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfill-optimized\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_11_host\">\n<div class=\"google-aiuf\" data-google-ad-efd=\"true\">\n<div class=\"goog-rentries\">\n<div><span tabindex=\"0\" role=\"heading\" aria-label=\"These are topics related to the article that might interest you\" aria-level=\"2\">Discover more<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Friends\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Friends\">Friends<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Rent Event Decor\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Rent Event Decor\">Rent Event Decor<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Try Meal Kits\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Try Meal Kits\">Try Meal Kits<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>Susan told me,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLinda, you need a few days just to breathe.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>On the final day of our vacation, we were sitting in the sun when Susan asked me to take out my phone.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLet\u2019s take one last photo together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I laughed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLast? Last what?\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-auto-placed ap_container\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle adsbygoogle-noablate\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfilled\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_12_host\"><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>She took off her sunglasses, looked at me for several seconds, then smiled again.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOur last photo as friends.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Start Baby Registry\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Start Baby Registry<\/div>\n<p>I thought she was joking.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSusan, you\u2019re scaring me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She leaned her shoulder against mine.<\/p>\n<p>I took the photo.<\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-before-nav\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1783805673970-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CLOZgb3h55YDFVHLVgMdPsMMxw\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--nextpage--><\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-after-image\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1783805644112-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CIPUzdXh55YDFRZxpAQdnKAPsw\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/23331504997\/Annonces-III_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p>We were both smiling.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-auto-placed ap_container\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle adsbygoogle-noablate\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfill-optimized\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_13_host\">\n<div class=\"google-aiuf\" data-google-ad-efd=\"true\">\n<div class=\"goog-rentries\">\n<div><span tabindex=\"0\" role=\"heading\" aria-label=\"These are topics related to the article that might interest you\" aria-level=\"2\">Discover more<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Order DNA Kits\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Order DNA Kits\">Order DNA Kits<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Plan Family Trips\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Plan Family Trips\">Plan Family Trips<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Explore Stargazing Apps\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Explore Stargazing Apps\">Explore Stargazing Apps<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>But then I noticed that Susan\u2019s hand was trembling.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat\u2019s going on?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She was silent for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>Then she said one sentence I still can\u2019t forget.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTomorrow, you\u2019ll find out who I\u2019ve really been in your life.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>The rest of the story is in the comments \ud83d\udc47\u203c\ufe0f<\/h3>\n<p>That night, she refused to explain.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Try Marriage Counseling\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Try Marriage Counseling<\/div>\n<div class=\"google-auto-placed ap_container\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle adsbygoogle-noablate\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfilled\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_14_host\"><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>She said she wanted to tell me everything in the morning.<\/p>\n<p>But when I woke up the next day, Susan\u2019s bed was empty.<\/p>\n<p>Her suitcase was gone.<\/p>\n<p>She wasn\u2019t answering her phone.<\/p>\n<p>And there was a white envelope sitting on my table.<\/p>\n<p>Only one thing was written on it:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Linda, read this all the way to the end. Then you can hate me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"google-auto-placed ap_container\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle adsbygoogle-noablate\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfilled\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_15_host\"><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>I opened the envelope.<\/p>\n<p>The first thing I saw inside was Michael\u2019s handwriting.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Book Grief Counseling\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Book Grief Counseling<\/div>\n<p>My husband\u2019s handwriting.<\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-middle-content\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1788392671745-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CJO1ztXh55YDFUxmpAQdK-4C-g\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/23331504997\/ads6_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>And after I read the first sentence of the letter, everything fell from my hands.<\/p>\n<p>For several minutes, I just sat on the edge of the bed, unable to pick the letter back up.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Join Social Clubs\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Join Social Clubs<\/div>\n<p>Michael had died eleven months earlier.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-auto-placed ap_container\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle adsbygoogle-noablate\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfilled\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_16_host\"><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>I would have recognized his handwriting anywhere.<\/p>\n<p>During our thirty-two years of marriage, he had left me hundreds of little notes on the refrigerator, written birthday cards, grocery lists, and sometimes just two words:<\/p>\n<p>I love you.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Try Time Trackers\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Try Time Trackers<\/div>\n<p>There was no possibility I was mistaken.<\/p>\n<p>Michael had written that letter.<\/p>\n<p>It began:<\/p>\n<p>Linda, if you are ever reading this, it means Susan has finally decided to tell you what I never had the courage to tell you myself.<\/p>\n<p>My heart began pounding.<\/p>\n<p>I kept reading.<\/p>\n<p>Michael wrote that during the twentieth year of our marriage, he had done something he had never forgiven himself for.<\/p>\n<p>That was the year I spent months caring for my sick mother. I stayed at her house most of the week.<\/p>\n<p>I remembered that period clearly.<\/p>\n<p>Susan was going through a difficult time too. Her marriage had just ended. She often came to our house. Sometimes I was the one who asked her to stop by and see Michael, bring him dinner, or simply keep him company.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Book Vacation Rentals\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Book Vacation Rentals<\/div>\n<p>Then I reached one sentence in the letter and stopped.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t want to continue.<\/p>\n<p>But I already knew.<\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-before-nav\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1783805673970-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CNe_ztXh55YDFSQ2-wMdyhIQng\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--nextpage--><\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-after-image\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1783805644112-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CJjs6d7h55YDFZjNDQkdlboTWQ\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/23331504997\/Annonces-III_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p>The thing I was terrified of seeing was written in the next few lines.<\/p>\n<p>Michael and Susan had been having an affair.<\/p>\n<p>Not once.<\/p>\n<p>Not one accidental mistake.<\/p>\n<p>It had lasted almost eight months.<\/p>\n<p>I threw the letter onto the floor.<\/p>\n<p>The first thing I felt wasn\u2019t even anger.<\/p>\n<p>It was disbelief.<\/p>\n<p>Susan?<\/p>\n<p>The girl who had gotten into a fight when we were twelve because someone at school had insulted me?<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Explore Art Software\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Explore Art Software<\/div>\n<p>The woman who stood beside me at my \u00a0<span class=\"google-anno-t\">wedding<\/span>?<\/p>\n<p>The woman who held me when I lost my first baby?<\/p>\n<p>The woman who sat beside me all night at the hospital when Michael had heart surgery?<\/p>\n<p>She had known all along?<\/p>\n<p>I grabbed my phone and called her.<\/p>\n<p>It was turned off.<\/p>\n<p>I called again.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Then I continued reading.<\/p>\n<p>Michael wrote that after eight months, he had been the one to end the affair. According to him, Susan had already wanted to tell me everything.<\/p>\n<p>Michael had begged her not to.<\/p>\n<p>He wrote:<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Get Language Courses\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Get Language Courses<\/div>\n<p>If we told you the truth, I would lose you, and you would lose both your husband and your best friend at the same time.<\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-middle-content\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1788392671745-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CIn26d7h55YDFaPODQkdfwIUhA\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/23331504997\/ads6_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>That sentence made me even angrier.<\/p>\n<p>They had made the decision for me.<\/p>\n<p>They had even decided how much pain I was allowed to know.<\/p>\n<p>Then I reached the hardest part.<\/p>\n<p>Over the years, Susan had tried several times to leave my life.<\/p>\n<p>And suddenly, I remembered.<\/p>\n<p>Once, out of nowhere, she told me she wanted to move to another state.<\/p>\n<div class=\"b-r b-r--middle_content\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-ad-slot=\"2941699588\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfill-optimized\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_5_host\">\n<div class=\"google-aiuf\" data-google-ad-efd=\"true\">\n<div class=\"goog-rentries\">\n<div><span tabindex=\"0\" role=\"heading\" aria-label=\"These are topics related to the article that might interest you\" aria-level=\"2\">Discover more<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Friends\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Friends\">Friends<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Wedding\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Wedding\">Wedding<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Find Wedding Venues\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Find Wedding Venues\">Find Wedding Venues<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>I had cried.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Try Marriage Counseling\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Try Marriage Counseling<\/div>\n<p>I had told her,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m not letting you go. You\u2019re my family.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She stayed.<\/p>\n<p>Now I understood why she had held me for so long that day.<\/p>\n<p>Another time, she stopped coming to our house for months. I became upset and forced her to explain.<\/p>\n<p>She told me she was simply busy with work.<\/p>\n<p>It had been a lie.<\/p>\n<p>She was trying to distance herself from me.<\/p>\n<p>And every time, I pulled her back into my life.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the letter, Michael wrote that after he was diagnosed with cancer, he had made Susan promise that she would tell me everything after his<\/p>\n<p>I knew nothing about that.<\/p>\n<p>During the final weeks of his life, Michael often spoke privately with Susan.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Book Grief Counseling\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Book Grief Counseling<\/div>\n<p>I thought he was asking her to take care of me once he was gone.<\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-before-nav\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1783805673970-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CK-c6t7h55YDFWj9DQkdD6A8bw\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--nextpage--><\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-after-image\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1783805644112-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CJjs6d7h55YDFZjNDQkdlboTWQ\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/23331504997\/Annonces-III_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p>The thing I was terrified of seeing was written in the next few lines.<\/p>\n<p>Michael and Susan had been having an affair.<\/p>\n<p>Not once.<\/p>\n<p>Not one accidental mistake.<\/p>\n<p>It had lasted almost eight months.<\/p>\n<p>I threw the letter onto the floor.<\/p>\n<p>The first thing I felt wasn\u2019t even anger.<\/p>\n<p>It was disbelief.<\/p>\n<p>Susan?<\/p>\n<p>The girl who had gotten into a fight when we were twelve because someone at school had insulted me?<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Explore Art Software\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Explore Art Software<\/div>\n<p>The woman who stood beside me at my \u00a0<span class=\"google-anno-t\">wedding<\/span>?<\/p>\n<p>The woman who held me when I lost my first baby?<\/p>\n<p>The woman who sat beside me all night at the hospital when Michael had heart surgery?<\/p>\n<p>She had known all along?<\/p>\n<p>I grabbed my phone and called her.<\/p>\n<p>It was turned off.<\/p>\n<p>I called again.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Then I continued reading.<\/p>\n<p>Michael wrote that after eight months, he had been the one to end the affair. According to him, Susan had already wanted to tell me everything.<\/p>\n<p>Michael had begged her not to.<\/p>\n<p>He wrote:<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Get Language Courses\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Get Language Courses<\/div>\n<p>If we told you the truth, I would lose you, and you would lose both your husband and your best friend at the same time.<\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-middle-content\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1788392671745-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CIn26d7h55YDFaPODQkdfwIUhA\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/23331504997\/ads6_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>That sentence made me even angrier.<\/p>\n<p>They had made the decision for me.<\/p>\n<p>They had even decided how much pain I was allowed to know.<\/p>\n<p>Then I reached the hardest part.<\/p>\n<p>Over the years, Susan had tried several times to leave my life.<\/p>\n<p>And suddenly, I remembered.<\/p>\n<p>Once, out of nowhere, she told me she wanted to move to another state.<\/p>\n<div class=\"b-r b-r--middle_content\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9651183077028168\" data-ad-slot=\"2941699588\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\" data-ad-status=\"unfill-optimized\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"aswift_5_host\">\n<div class=\"google-aiuf\" data-google-ad-efd=\"true\">\n<div class=\"goog-rentries\">\n<div><span tabindex=\"0\" role=\"heading\" aria-label=\"These are topics related to the article that might interest you\" aria-level=\"2\">Discover more<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Friends\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Friends\">Friends<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Wedding\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Wedding\">Wedding<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip goog-rentry\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Find Wedding Venues\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\"><span title=\"Find Wedding Venues\">Find Wedding Venues<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>I had cried.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Try Marriage Counseling\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Try Marriage Counseling<\/div>\n<p>I had told her,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m not letting you go. You\u2019re my family.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She stayed.<\/p>\n<p>Now I understood why she had held me for so long that day.<\/p>\n<p>Another time, she stopped coming to our house for months. I became upset and forced her to explain.<\/p>\n<p>She told me she was simply busy with work.<\/p>\n<p>It had been a lie.<\/p>\n<p>She was trying to distance herself from me.<\/p>\n<p>And every time, I pulled her back into my life.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the letter, Michael wrote that after he was diagnosed with cancer, he had made Susan promise that she would tell me everything after his<\/p>\n<p>I knew nothing about that.<\/p>\n<p>During the final weeks of his life, Michael often spoke privately with Susan.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Book Grief Counseling\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Book Grief Counseling<\/div>\n<p>I thought he was asking her to take care of me once he was gone.<\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-before-nav\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1783805673970-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CK-c6t7h55YDFWj9DQkdD6A8bw\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--nextpage--><\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-after-image\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1783805644112-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CI664fbh55YDFYMsYwEd-SUrkw\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/23331504997\/Annonces-III_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p>I looked at her.<\/p>\n<p>Thirty-seven years of memories passed through my mind.<\/p>\n<p>Two little girls in a schoolyard.<\/p>\n<p>Our first school dance.<\/p>\n<p>My wedding.<\/p>\n<p>The births of my children.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Try Time Trackers\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Try Time Trackers<\/div>\n<p>My mother\u2019s funeral.<\/p>\n<p>Michael\u2019s final night in the hospital.<\/p>\n<p>And Susan was there in every one of those memories.<\/p>\n<p>But now every memory seemed to have two different versions.<\/p>\n<p>The one I had known.<\/p>\n<p>And the one that had actually happened.<\/p>\n<p>I said only one thing.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou were right. That was our last photo.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She walked out.<\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-middle-content\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1788392671745-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CLPN4fbh55YDFQ0RYwEdmRMq0g\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_\/23331504997\/ads6_0__container__\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Six months have passed since that day.<\/p>\n<p>We haven\u2019t spoken.<\/p>\n<p>She has sent me two letters.<\/p>\n<p>I haven\u2019t answered either of them.<\/p>\n<div class=\"google-anno-skip google-anno-sc\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\" aria-label=\"Try Marriage Counseling\" data-google-vignette=\"false\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\">Try Marriage Counseling<\/div>\n<p>But the strangest thing is that I still haven\u2019t deleted our last photo.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I open it and stare at our smiling faces for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>In that picture, I am still the woman who believes the person beside her is the most loyal friend she has ever had.<\/p>\n<p>And Susan already knows that in just a few hours, that entire life is going to change.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes people ask me if I will ever be able to forgive her.<\/p>\n<p>I still don\u2019t have an answer.<\/p>\n<p>Because betrayal isn\u2019t only discovering that your best friend had an affair with your husband.<\/p>\n<p>For me, the most painful part was something else.<\/p>\n<p>For twelve years, every single day, they both had the chance to tell me the truth.<\/p>\n<p>And every single day, they both chose silence.<\/p>\n<div class=\"justread-ad justread-ad--ad-before-nav\">\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1783805673970-0\" data-google-query-id=\"CNDm4fbh55YDFbcAYwEdRqUeKw\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\ud83d\udc94\ud83d\udc94 \u201cMy Best Friend of 37 Years Asked Me to Take One LAST Photo Together on Vacation\u2014As Friends. 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